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Can you Find Understanding Through Conflict in Divorce? An Interview with California Mediator Gary Friedman
After graduating from the prestigious Brown University in 1969 and working as a litigator for five years, the formidable young trial … [Read More...]
How to improve the odds of reaching divorce settlements in mediation
M's husband seemed a reasonable man, but hired a formidable family law trial attorney. Nonetheless, M and I, and M and his attorneys met … [Read More...]
Asking your spouse to use divorce mediation
Even if you're fighting like cats or your spouse is a narcissist, don't throw away any legitimate opportunities to settle your … [Read More...]
How blue is too blue? Depression and divorce
Even under the best circumstances, divorce can be quite stressful. Often men and women are faced with practical concerns such as selling a … [Read More...]
Five Steps for a Soul-centered Divorce
Divorce can be one of the worst experiences of your life. Each and every day, you ride waves of fear, doubt, stress, anxiety, insomnia, and … [Read More...]
Don’t give up on your dreams in divorce
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Practice Mindfulness in Divorce
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On Intentional Marriages
Marrying or divorcing a trust fund beneficiary in California?
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3 reasons to get a prenuptial agreement
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Why are women scared of prenuptial agreements?
Ninety nine percent of the people who contact me about prenuptial agreements are men. And over the course of my twenty-five years of practice as an attorney, only two women have … [Read More...]