It’s Okay to Cry

Mental health professionals consider divorce to be one of the most traumatic life events a person experiences. Divorce is the death of a relationship that involves the loss of a loved one or the dream of a perfect life. It can also be the end of the world as you know it. Your entire life, […]

Get Motivated Monday

In the midst of divorce it’s easy to get caught up in the uncertainties of the present and forget about the future. Today, take time to think about the new life you’d like to create when your divorce is final. Ask youself “Where do I want to live? Do I want to stay in this […]

Weekly Divorce Tip #6

Everyday people’s credit is ruined by their ex-spouse’s failure to pay debts, as required by their divorce judgments or settlement agreements. Don’t let this happen to you. If you have any joint debts that your spouse is ordered or agrees to pay during the divorce, have your husband pay or refinance the debt in his […]

Get Motivated Monday

It’s time to set your divorce goals and take action. Today, we’d like to suggest your goals include asking for help. If you’re in an abusive relationship, call the National Domestic Violence 24 hour hotline: 800–799–SAFE (7233) and ask for help. If you have legal questions, call a family lawyer or legal hotline and ask […]

Weekly Divorce Tip #5

If you think dealing with divorce is boring and you’re letting your spouse or lawyer handle it without you, DON’T! Decisions made in divorce will affect the rest of your life and you can’t afford to sleep through it. Shake yourself, splash water on your face, do some jumping jacks, then dive into your divorce. […]

I’m Suddenly Single…Now What?

If after years of marriage you’re now lonely most evenings and weekends, don’t despair. The truth of the matter is there are millions of singles just like you across the United States and they’re getting together for fun. They’re joining social clubs, taking extended education classes and traveling the world together. They’re living, laughing and […]

In Memoriam Monday

Memorial Day commemorates all of the U.S. men and women who have died in military service to their country. These soldiers fought to defend and protect our freedom. Today, honor them by embracing what they’ve given you and doing whatever it takes to be happy and free. If you feel trapped in an unhappy, unhealthy […]

Weekly Divorce Tip #4

Going to court can be a daunting experience that makes you feel like you’ve done something wrong. The size of the building, metal detectors, guards and the judge sitting on a bench are all intimidating and sometimes, nerve wracking. If you have a hearing or trial date coming up and you’ve never been to your […]