De-Clutter your life during divorce

by - December 5, 2013

The process of divorce is labor intensive. By “process” I mean all of the processes you have to complete simultaneously with, or shortly after the legal process to become legally divorced. These processes may include, among countless others: Selling, buying, renting, and/or moving your home Establishing and navigating a new parenting routine as a single,

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Something for your weekend

by - October 31, 2013

Divorce books

Being able to make decisions in divorce is critical but it isn’t always easy. In an effort to better understand how we make decisions I have read and recommend John Lehrer’s book How we Decide. In his book John explains when it is best to use reason or rational thinking to make decisions and when

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Something for the Weekend*

by - October 25, 2013

Snowflake Doggies

I love weekends. On Friday nights I feel as though I have forty eight hours to do whatever I choose. I often find myself writing and creating things for you. I also have weekends when my brain is fried from the rigors of divorce and I need rest, relaxation and fun. I know for some

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Blood, guts, and divorce

by - October 22, 2013

People often ask me why I no longer spend my days in divorce court. I usually reply with this question: “Would you want to spend almost every day of your life going through bad divorces or seeing people at their worst?” After giving me a knowing glance, most people change the topic, but others probe.

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